Corrie Ann, A Dignified Woman: Part 1 of 4
The wolf said, “You know, my dear, it isn’t safe for a little girl to walk through these woods alone.”
Red Riding Hood said, “I find your sexist remark offensive in the extreme, but I will ignore it because of your traditional status as an outcast from society, the stress of which has caused you to develop your own, entirely valid, worldview. Now, if you’ll excuse me, I must be on my way.” ― James Finn Garner
The thoughtful and contemplative woman is exactly the kind of woman the dignified man should love. She is quiet, sweet and always lost in thought. The mystery that surrounds her is intoxicating to the base instinct of man (and wolf), and she knows it. But don’t underestimate her, she is intelligent, cunning, and sophisticated. How else do you think she survived those woods?
Gentlemen, meet Corrie, November’s Dignified Woman. We will be spending the month of November getting to know her. As always, this is Corrie through her own eyes, and in her own words. What better way to spend the month known for giving thanks?
Men who have enough confidence to approach a woman, in a respectful way, should be treated with the same respect in return. Whether that woman decides to share in the man’s interest, or to go her own way, is up to her. But I find confidence in a man attractive.
I tend to be somewhat protective of what is (or what I would like to be) mine. I will either make sure my territory is marked so other women know what is off limits, or (because I know certain men like it.) If I am simply with a group of girls who meets a group of guys, I usually will let who I find to be best suiting know how I feel. What happens after ‘the meeting’ is strictly up to how well a man can show me a good time.
Whips and chains are taboo to me but they still turn me on. The thought of being dirty with something so innocent makes me feel almost motivated to try it out.
The organized chaos of earning your right next to a woman in her bed is a work of art. But sex is only a temporary pleasure we are granted in life.
I have never been with a man simply because he is good looking. In fact, most of my significant others have been less attractive than myself. I feel that looks are something extra. Aesthetics can only please you for so long before things become boring and drab. I love becoming attracted to someone’s mind before their face. I find it fascinating. I like the idea of seeing people for who they truly are and not for what they look like at first glance. The mole underneath their chin becomes so much more than just a random spot. Just like a scar, big or small, becomes something so much more than just a random mark. It’s part of the person whom you’ve grown to know and not just see.
I hate “honeymoon periods” in dating when both people are putting their best foot forward and not really stepping out of line too much. I feel like you really get to know someone when you begin to spend the night at their apartment, or you know where they keep their glasses and plates, and when you know which drawer has the forks in it.
To me, sex is for fun. I feel that having fun is one of the best things a human being can do for themselves. Finding the fun in sex is what ultimately holds the key to unlocking and keeping a great sex life. I am a very bubbly and happy-go-lucky kind of gal. Most of what I do involves a smile, along with something pertaining to fun- and that includes sex.
When I can feel comfortable and content with someone, someone that I can trust, I will normally allow myself to take things to the next level, let my guard down somewhat and become intimate. One thing that will always turn me off from a man is arrogance. The attitude that he can have what he wants (myself included)‘and he “knows it.”
The Women and Sex section of this blog is updated twice a week. Fridays are dedicated to the Dignified Woman of the Month, and Saturdays are dedicated to Leslie-Marie’s women and sex opinion column. For more Women and Sex posts click here.
If I don’t tell a man not to move, I’m expecting him to be performing to the best of his abilities! If I felt like being in charge when being physical with a man, I make sure he knows it.