A Dignified Woman
Jersiree Dizon is a 28-year-old model born in Hawaii, and raised in California. We sat down with Jesiree and talked about love, life, and, of course, her sex life.
What do you think defines you as a woman?
Jesiree Dizon: The biggest thing that has defined me into womanhood has to be my son. I also think it’s the way you walk, talk, carry yourself….. exuding sexiness without being trashy is a true woman and I think I can do all that.
Give us an explanation of exuding sex?
JD: The way a woman walks…. a certain sway in her step, that “independent I don’t need anyone” kind of swag. Yet she is in jeans and a tank top, not having to show too much mystery but carrying yourself around a man leading him to want to know more about you is sexy….. the way you look at him, smile at him, talk to him….. I think a woman’s smile is the sexiest thing she owns.
Do you think women have a double standard when it comes to sex, and what is expected of them when it comes to sex?
JD: I think men will expect what a woman gives off. A woman with her tits and ass out will have a different expectation than a woman in a t-shirt and jeans. It’s all in the way a woman carries herself and presents herself.
What is your idea of perfect happiness when it comes to sex and being a woman?
JD: Well, being a virgo to a “T,” I am naturally a pleaser in all aspects of a relationship, so happiness to me is making my other half happy. I don’t believe anything is perfect, but as long as I know I’m doing my job and keeping my man happy, then I am good.
What is your greatest fear when it comes to sex?
JD: Oooooh, that’s an interesting question…. I don’t really have any “fears” about sex except there being absolutely NO connection between us and then it’s just a waste.
Who taught you the most about sex in your life?
JD: Honestly, my ex-boyfriend not only taught me about sex, but about my own body as well….. as strange as that sounds. He is the one person I can honestly say that just made me feel comfortable in my own skin and really let loose and explore my body, feeling comfortable enough to explore each other and learn new things that I might have been reserved about in the past.
In terms of a celebrity, who is the man and woman you sexually identify with, and why?
JD: I guess I would have to choose Jenifer Lopez. Everything about her is sexy…. the way she walks down the red carpet, the way she looks into the camera and smiles with her eyes, the way she carries herself on a day to day basis, and the way she is with her children. To me, she is the epitome of sexiness and the epitome of a woman.
What is the trait you most deplore about yourself when it comes to sex?
JD: Sometimes I don’t just relax and give in to the moment.
What is the trait you most deplore in others when it comes to sex?
JD: Trying to show off instead of learning ME. Sometimes guys have this idea of what the sex needs to be like and not realizing that sex with everyone is different, so they just do their own thing, not listening to my body.
What is your greatest extravagance when it comes to sex?
JD: I am a “no holds barred” type of woman when there is that undeniable connection between us. I haven’t done it in crazy places, if that’s what you’re asking. But my man (when I have one) has no cause for complaints!
What is your favorite journey when it comes to sex and men?
JD: Learning about each other is my favorite. Figuring out what makes him tick, what makes him feel good, what gets him riled up…. to me, that is exciting and my favorite thing.
What do you consider the one essential physical skill every man should have perfected when it comes to sex?
JD: Going down on a woman FOR SURE!!! Listen to her body. You can tell when it’s too much and when it’s not enough. Faster doesn’t mean better…. switch it up. Sometimes take it slow and pay attention to how her body moves with you. You will be able to get an idea of what she wants by her movement.
What do you dislike most about your appearance?
JD: When I was younger, I used to hate my feet and my forehead!!! (laughs) The older I got, the more I started to not care! Although I could do without the occasional pimple right on my nose!
When it comes to sex, what word or phrases do you most over use?
JD: “Oh My God!!!”
What’s your current state of mind when it comes to the modern man, and the world he lives in?
JD: My current state of mind is a little discouraged at the moment. I definitely don’t think all men are the same, but I just haven’t found the right one in this world I live in called Hollywood! (laughs) I’m also not looking so I guess that doesn’t help, either.
If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?
JD: I’m such an independent person that, in relationships, I can sometimes come off as uncaring or cold. I forget sometimes, that just like women, men also need to feel needed and wanted and I sometimes forget that. Sometimes I have a man’s mentality when I date someone and I wish I didn’t. I think it’s the Virgo in me.
What would you consider your greatest achievement in the world of sex?
JD: Having the big “O” for the first time last year! Man I hope some of my ex’s don’t read this! (laughs) I had NEVER had the “O” until my ex I was explaining to you taught me the most about sex and my own body. Every time the feeling would get strong, I would always stop them or just fake it so they would stop. Stupid, I know, but at the time it was almost like someone was tickling me and just wouldn’t stop. It’s cute and it feels good, but when the sensation gets too strong, you just want them to stop. That’s how I used to feel. Plus I would never just “relax” and give in to the moment. I was always so tense because I never really understood my body and what was going on. I went to a private school where they didn’t teach about sex AT ALL! I NEVER even played with myself or explored myself until after my big moment.
What’s your most treasured possession when it comes to sex?
JD: I know it’s hard to believe, but it’s true… My “flower.” FRAGILE handle with care! (laughs)
What is the quality you value most in a man during sex?
JD: When he pays attention to detail with you. I can’t stress enough how important it is for a man to listen to a woman’s body. When a man has that, it’s magical.
What is the quality you value most in a woman when it comes to sex?
JD: hmmmmm, being able to please her man! I think it’s sooooooo important for a woman to know how to go down on a man WELL!! I think the biggest misconception women have is their talent is based on how much they can “fit in.” It’s not about that, it’s about movement, incorporating your hands, and just going all in. A lot of girls still try to look pretty while doing it. I don’t think we ever look pretty while doing that, but guys think it’s sexy as all get out so just go for it and don’t hold back. Also switch it up…. don’t do the same thing over and over. Girls have to listen to a man’s body too. It goes both ways. you can tell by a man’s words, body movement, and face if it’s something he likes and gets into. A woman can feel when he is getting hotter and hotter with what she’s doing. Men are just more vocal than girls.
Tell us something about you no other men knows, or would be surprised to find out about you?
JD: Well if I do that, then it wouldn’t be fun for him to figure out now, would it? (laughs)
No, but our readers would love it.
JD: A lot of guys look at me and think I’m just a missionary kind of girl. I don’t conduct myself like I would be wild in bed so it’s a shocker for a guy when I am.
What do you wear to bed: On a first date, and a Sunday around the house?
JD: I’m definitely a sleep naked kind of girl. If it’s just me and my guy at home, I will walk around in just my thong or boy shorts, a nighty, or just nothing at all. On a first date, it depends on where we are going. I’m definitely a cover up kind of girl though…. jeans, hot boots, blazer or a nice dress and heels.
Tell us your favorite dirty joke.
All the photography Showcased in this article was taken by Anthony Evans. When asked for his bio he simply said this, “I’ll make it very short: Looks are nice but attitude is whoa! FEED ME BEASTS!!! Enough said…. HAND ME MY CANON! TODAY I DO DAMAGE!!! When asked about Shooting Jeziree he had more to say, “Jesiree is the PERFECT model! She’s very confident, which on top of her looks, exudes sexiness. I love it when a model can look at your camera like they wanna do something to you. And although she takes direction well, she’s the type I can say let’s go and she’s brings it! As a matter of fact… from the moment she walks in the door, before hair & makeup is even done, she’s modeling! She is a straight up character! Lot’s of fun, lot’s of energy, and just an overall sweet person. LOVE THAT GIRL!” You can see more of Anthony’s Work at his website here. For more of Jeziree you can follow her on Twitter here. Her new website is launching soon here. To book Jeziree, contact email@example.com or firstname.lastname@example.org All make-up was done by makeupbyliz.com
JD: I don’t really know many good jokes. Maybe your readers can help me out on this one… (laughs) But okay, here goes my best one….
How do you get a girl to sound like a dolphin?! Bend her over, try to stick it in her bum and listen to her go “eh eh, eh eh.”
That’s the best I got! (laughs) Sad I know.