A Dignified Woman
Brooke is a 20-year-old model born and raised in Michigan. A self confessed “girl next door,” she sits down with the Dignified Devil to talk about life, men, sex, and the art of leaving a scar.
How do you think the average guy sees you?
Brooke Bayless: I think the average guy sees me as very friendly and welcoming. For some reason, I can’t seem to stop smiling!
… and the average woman?
BB: Hmmm… That’s a hard one. I would hope they would see me as just another girl doing her own thing. I might be wrong, most of my friends seem to be dudes. (laughs)
So you’re one of THOSE girls…
BB: What’s that supposed to mean?
Well, do you disagree that there are women that are mostly friends with men? Men know of this, and women usually hold that against other women. Agree or disagree?
BB: Not too sure. I was always kind of a tomboy growing up. I played a bunch of sports and always found it to be easier to get along with guys. I don’t like the petty drama that goes on in some girl “clicks.” Whereas guys are so laid back and easy going.
Fair enough. In regards to happiness: men and sex. What’s your idea of perfect happiness when it comes to those two things?
BB: Happiness is what you make it out to be. I believe that a positive attitude in any situation can eventually bring you happiness. As for men… I love it when a guy can be confident in almost any situation. He has to be nice, funny, and cute. As for sex… I love it when a guy takes control. I’m pretty crazy so he has to be able to match that.
BB: Well… I’m kind of a biter. Anyone who knows me probably has a scar or two. Seriously. I really get turned on being teased and I like it when a guy takes control. The idea of being caught is a plus too!
What is your greatest fear when it comes to men?
BB: My greatest fear is that I’m only seeing one side of a guy. I’ve had some past experiences that have led me to believe that a lot of men have separate lives outside of the relationship.
… and your greatest fear when it comes to sex?
BB: Sex doesn’t really scare me. I practice safe sex and I’m not one of those girls at the clubs every weekend looking for a new guy to go home with.
Something must scare you?
BB: When it comes to sex, I’m game for whatever. The only thing that scares me is the things that guys will do to try to hook up with me. For example, random dudes who find me on Facebook and ask me random questions, trying to make small talk. I’m guessing they want to hook up? Ummm.. no thanks. (laughs)
What is the trait you most deplore about yourself when it comes to sex and men?
BB: I feel at times I’m too welcoming and trusting, which just so happens to be what I’m most afraid of. I wish I could be more confrontational at times because situations can get pretty awkward. I have a hard time being mean to a guy to turn him away when I am not interested.
What is your greatest extravagance when it comes to sex?
BB: I don’t know if it’s an extravagance, but I just hope there is nobody within screaming distance. Things can get pretty loud sometimes. (smile)
What do you consider the most overrated talent when it comes to sex?
BB: Lasting a really long time is not really necessary. Great sex can sometimes be the quickie before work. The all-night marathons aren’t exactly my cup of tea.
On what occasion do you lie when it comes to sex?
BB: It’s really no big secret that women lie when it comes to orgasms. I feel like guys shouldn’t feel bummed because the woman didn’t get off. There are many pleasurable things about sex and I don’t have to get off every time to enjoy it.
What word or phrases do you most over use when it comes to sex?
BB: Hmmm… probably “Yeah, baby.” (laughs)
What’s your current state of mind when it comes to the state of the modern man?
BB: This whole idea of “How many girls can I get in one night” is disgusting. I don’t think Reality TV shows help out when it comes to this… It only eggs them on. Whatever happened to chivalry?
Well, that’s a good question. What makes a man dignified in your eyes?
BB: I like a guy who has the ability to take care of me, makes me laughs, keeps me motivated, and brings out the best in me. Oh yea, if he fake tans- no thank youuu. (laughs)
If you could change one thing about your body what would be?
BB: I have things about my body that I’m not particularly fond of but I use that as motivation for when I work out. My goal is to tone my legs and hips.
Favorite part of your body?
BB: My booty! My momma hooked me up.
When it comes to men and women what is the first thing you notice about them physically?
BB: I always seem to look at butts for some reason. Girl or guy. I like to see a toned booty in tight pants- I feel like that’s a good way to tell if someone is active and doesn’t sit on their behind all day.
What do you wear to bed, alone on a Sunday afternoon, and on a first date?
BB: To bed- My birthday suit! Simply because it’s more comfortable, especially on hot nights when I want to be under a bunch of blankets. Alone on a Sunday- A sports bra and softie shorts. Not too fancy but comfy. On a first date- Boat shoes, skinny jeans and a cute but casual shirt. It depends where we are going but this is my go-to attire.
How do you seduce a man when you want to?
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BB: I’m pretty hands-on (laughs). I like to give hugs and if I really like him, I can’t wipe the smile off my face… so it’s pretty obvious.