An interview with a Dignified Woman
Alexandria is a model, a classical ballet dancer and singer hailing from San Francisco. She is honest, laid back with just a touch of feisty. We recently sat down with Alex and and talk to her about sex, and what men get wrong about women. Enjoy, gentlemen…
So Alex,what do you think defines you as a woman?
Alexandria Schneider: I believe what defines you is what you do in your life. How you treat your family and your friends and those around you.
What is it like to be a woman in the modern age, and what would you consider the worst thing about it?
AS: Having a period every month! (laughs) Oh, and when you smile at a man they automatically think you’re interested! No! Maybe I’m just a nice person!
Ok, what is the best thing about being a woman?
AS: In all honesty I really love being a woman. I absolutely LOVE getting all dolled up for date night or going out to dinner with my girlfriends! I have so much fun playing with make-up and clothes. I love being a sister of three. I think the BEST part of all is that we get to experience having a baby! Yes, I said it.. I can’t wait!
What about the modern man. If you could teach one thing to the universal man what would it be?
AS: How to treat a lady. I know there are men out there that really treat women with the respect they deserve. Then there are those men that don’t. I believe those men need to reevaluate themselves.
Let’s talk about that for a minute. In general how do you think the modern man sees the modern woman?
AS: As sex objects of course! (laughs) Ummm.. I’m not sure. I think they see us as their counterparts, overall. Today women are much more independent.
What about sex? What defines you as a sexual person?
AS: In my opinion sexuality begins with loving yourself first. When you love yourself you’re more confident and secure and that’s sexy.
That sounds easier said than done. How does one do that?
AS: Go after your dreams, be a kind, honest, and loyal person. When you’re living your life to the fullest and being a good person it’s hard not to love yourself.
So let’s talk a little about the modern woman and her views on sex. What do you think men get wrong about women sexually?
AS: That we want them to be aggressive in bed. I hear my friends complaining about this all the time.
And what do think men get right about about the modern woman when it comes to sex?
AS: I think men are a lot more attentive to our needs. They’re much more willing to listen to direction and criticism.
So what about happiness? What’s your idea of perfect happiness when it comes to a sexual experience?
AS: Perfect happiness in sex is when there is love. Sex to me is pointless if there isn’t a deeper connection. You can’t get deeper than love. That’ss the greatest gift you can give each other.
Whats the most common direction and or criticism you think women give to men sexually?
AS: Women want it more then men! Every one thinks men are always wanting to have sex, when in reality I’ve found its the complete opposite.
If that were true, why aren’t more people having more sex?
AS: Well, I think they are!
There are a lot of men out there that are going to disagree with you on this point.
AS: Disagree away. I’m just saying this is my own experience and what all my girlfriends complain about. I’m sure there are plenty of situations where this isn’t a problem.
So what can men do to tune into this need that women have for sex?
AS: Spend more quality time with your woman. Make that a priority.
That almost sounds too easy, and it’s a great way to bring up games. What would your response be to men that would say women play too many games, that it’s all too frustrating… do you think that’s a fair statement?
AS: I think it’s a fair statement to say both men and women are guilty of playing games.
Agreed. So we have a theory…We think the modern man is lost when it comes to purpose in life. What do you think women can do to help them find their way?
AS: As a woman I think the best thing we can do for our man is to be their supporter and always encourage them to do what makes them happy.
Can you please share that thought with all of your female friends please! Okay, so you seem like a serious woman, with well-thought out ideas on all this women and sex stuff. BUT we usually end these interviews with your favorite dirty joke, do you have one?
AS: (laughs) Okay lets see… Okay, here we go… One night, as a couple lay down for bed, the husband gently taps his wife on the shoulder and starts rubbing her arm. The wife turns over and says: “I’m sorry honey, I’ve got a gynecologist appointment tomorrow and I want to stay fresh.” The husband, rejected, turns over and tries to sleep. A few minutes later, he rolls back over and taps his wife again. This time he whispers in her ear: “Do you have a dentist appointment tomorrow, too?”
+++Larsen Sotelo is a 31-year-old amazing photographer living in Los Angeles. He has this amazing ability to catch women in their natural environment, which you know is something we here at the Dignified Devil love. Check him and his work out on Facebook and his website.