A Woman’s Perspective

Let’s discuss the essentials gentlemen. You fancy yourself a dignified devil, but can you capture the interest of a dignified woman? Flirting is more art than science, a series of seemingly innocent exchanges in which we assess the quality of a man. Unless you are fortunate enough to have been born with a natural talent for entertaining women, you need to cultivate the ability to flirt properly. A man who cannot interact appropriately will at best bore a woman; at worst, he will send her scurrying away completely creeped out. What is a woman looking for in a flirtatious conversation? Let me enlighten you. Here are the top three rules to flirting:

1. Always be confident, but never cocky
Girls may confuse the two, a woman does not. We deal far too often with rude and pompous men who mistakenly believe we are impressed with their overbearing ego. A man who presents himself with brash arrogance is sending a clear message: he is expecting something from us while offering very little in return. Women want a confident, supportive man, not an insecure man who overcompensates by being cocky. Approach women assure of yourself and confidently, but direct your attention towards her and avoid centering on yourself.

2. Charm her with humor
A man who can put a smile on my face is a delightful and refreshing surprise. There is a certain swag that men with good humor carry. They capture and hold our attention on completely positive terms, creating a lasting impression of wit and charm we will not soon forget. Develop the ability to appropriately weave humor into your conversations and you will be rewarded with our growing affections.

3. Do Not Be A Creep
If you learn anything, learn how not to be creepy. Social awkwardness can be overcome with an investment of time and attention into cultivating refinement. Persistent awkwardness and poor social graces are simply harassment. Any woman worth your time and attention is worth an effort to develop your conversational skills. The investment will translate into confidence and success. Anything less is a complete turn off, everything you do not want to achieve.

Hopefully these tips help you the next time you encounter an irresistible woman, work hard enough and she just might flirt back. Good luck Dignitaries.